What have you discussed with your kids about how to begin and maintain a healthy romantic relationship and how to end one when it’s no longer working?
Tonight I got to chat with a group of sophomore guys about healthy relationships and safe people.
Our relationships impact our mental health so it’s important to prepare our kids for them beyond just their sexual activity.
I challenged these young men that while physical attraction is important and is needed, that they need filters beyond just this dynamic. We talked about making a list of qualities they value and working towards becoming that type of person. I also brought up the common temptation to get into a relationship for social status instead of because you really want to be with someone.
I shared with them the importance of avoiding someone who has no problems because you’ll always be the problem. I also cautioned them against rescuing someone who has too many problems.
